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		<title>Your Friends Will Miss You</title>
		<link>http://mattrefghi.com/blog/2011/07/your-friends-will-miss-you/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jul 2011 14:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt Refghi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Reviews]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[facebook]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[manipulation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[privacy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As much as I currently]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As much as I currently enjoy <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook" target="_blank">Facebook</a>, I&#8217;ve been known to disable my account every now and then. I never considered this a big deal, as I knew it would remain dormant until I decided I wanted to return. Right now, I&#8217;m in one of my active phases, and don&#8217;t plan on leaving anytime soon. Despite this fact, I recently found myself visiting the deactivate page, purely out of boredom. In doing so, I unexpectedly came face-to-face with an amusing attempt at manipulation:</p>
<div id="attachment_3066" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 488px"><a href="http://mattrefghi.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/fb.png" rel="lightbox[3063]"><img class="size-full wp-image-3066" src="http://mattrefghi.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/fb.png" alt="The Facebook deactivation page tells me that five friends will miss me, while providing an easy way to message them." width="478" height="393" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Are you sure you want to deactivate your account? Your friends will miss you.</p></div>
<p>Instead of just telling how the deactivation will affect the data I&#8217;ve shared, they go as far as saying that my friends will miss me. They don&#8217;t have a true sense of how significant Facebook is in my life, so the statement comes off as silly. Am I disappearing from the face of the Earth? No, I&#8217;m just disabling Facebook, and I will continue to be alive and reachable.</p>
<p>The specific friends that Facebook decided to show are also interesting &#8211; they appear to be purely random, not really factoring in <em>how</em> I use Facebook. If at least it showed the people I spoke to the most, then being warned about them missing me might actually mean something. After all, I&#8217;d be disabling a communication medium that had been used regularly with those specific people. But no, every time I visit the page, a random set of friends will miss me.</p>
<p>Furthermore, notice how the first friend listed has a photo with two people, instead of just one? That&#8217;s actually not the person&#8217;s profile photo, but instead a picture of her <em>with me</em>. We went on a trip together many years back, and it seems that Facebook is going the extra mile to further showcase the friendship that is at stake. Crafty.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s interesting to see how far Facebook will go to secure their ad revenue, and keep their userbase large. Surprisingly, according to a presentation Luke Wroblewski attended, <a href="http://www.lukew.com/ff/entry.asp?1033" target="_blank">it actually works</a>:</p>
<blockquote><p>looked at deactivation page and adjusted it convince people to stay by adding pictures of friends. Had a big impact, kept 1 million people a year on the site.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Yahoo! Answers: Suing Facebook</title>
		<link>http://mattrefghi.com/blog/2009/09/yahoo-answers-suing-facebook/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Sep 2009 00:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matt Refghi</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Humor]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[comedy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[facebook]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[yahoo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[yahoo answers]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I was genuinely trying to]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was genuinely trying to find out if there was a way to have certain pictures of myself removed from Facebook, until <a href="http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090927073035AA00aqU" target="_blank">I found this comedic gem</a>:</p>
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<p>I like how all the others answers were, for the most part, completely correct &#8211; and yet the chosen &#8220;best answer&#8221; is ridiculous.</p>
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